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January 31 基督城找房日记moved down to christchurch for about 1 week already. still havnt found the right accommodation. is it because i m too fussy???
 i will start my new job in Marcus Evans in mid of Feb as sales. because of limited income (my salary strucutre = limited base salary + commission), i am looking for an average price flat, no need to be fancy but clean and tidy. but most flat in christchurh is either expensive or horrible.
townhouse, clost to hagley park... sounds good. i went to hav a look at the room, small but big enough for myself.
'ok, i would like to take the room'.
'one of my boyfriend's friend may want to stay here. i m waiting for his reply. if he wont stay here, i will txt you. '
waiting... and keep looking...
last Tuesday
msg: 'my boyfriend's decide not to stay with us, r u still looking for a room?'
cool, i gav her cellphone a ring, and told her i would move in on Thursday.
the next day
msg: 'sorry, my boyfriend's friend change his mind. he would like to stay with us.'
...
'we hav two rooms availabe, but we will only let one room out. coz we dont want too many ppl share in the house'
sounds pretty good.
i had a look of both rooms. one is bigger but no sun. the other one is smaller and lot of sunshine. they are letting the bigger room (for $110). so i start negotiating with them
' can i hav the little room, i dont mind paying the same amount for the bigger room'
' sorry, we dont want to rent this smaller room, we will prefer to change it into study room'
' that is ok. thanks anyway'
the next day, their ad on skykiwi was updated. two rooms to let, a bigger room for $120 and one smaller room for $110
 the most frequent words used for rental ad include'阳光大房，靓房，步行市中心仅*分钟，安静，友善房东...'
of course some ads are real, but some...
阳光大房, only one window in the room with an one metre high fence outside the window... where is the sunshine??? how can the sunshin come to the room? through the wall or roof?
靓房, the house maybe 50+ years old, what the hell do you define '靓房'?
if they say * mins walk to city centre, at least it will take *+5mins. i dont know how can they walk so fast, can they fly? or they run to city?
quiet? you will hav baby in 3 months, how can it be quiet?
friendly landlord, if d inf you put on the ads is not real, how can i say u r friendly? at least, you are not honest...
my friend drove me around to see the flat after his work. i walked a long way to hav a look at the room which is 'close' to city...
i hav nothing to say about the landlord. anyway, they are the landlord. they can do anything they want. but please, be honest, and be nice to ur tenants. we are all chinese in this foreign country. can never understand, why some chinese wont help chinese here but other way around just for own benefits.
can never understand!
January 23 自由人心为什么有自由？自由就是因为他不在乎。人的一生只有被你真正在乎的事情，可以真正拘束住。人生的劳顿有很多时候，要先问一问目的是什么？很多事是一个循环，也许你眼下的起点，对自己的交待，是一种十分高尚的回答，比如说，是为了家人，为了自己的成就，为了对社会有所贡献。但是，潜在背后的动机是什么呢？这是不是我们给名和利，找的一个堂而皇之的托辞？有时，就是因为被名利在前面一步一步地牵引着，沦陷进一种无事忙的人生循环。
摘自《于丹庄子心得》 January 22 sleepyi went down to christchurch on Monday for 2 interviews. one is for real estate agent, the other one is the SALES position for MARCUSEVANS (if you want to know about what the company sells, check out this website. hard for me to explain http://www.marcusevans.com/) the interview goes pretty well, but you hav to be clear about what you are looking for from the job! i want to tell everyone that, there is a lot of opportunities outside. but if you dont spend time on looking, there wont be any chance for you. of course i will keep on job hunting and try to find a most suitable job for myself.
9pm, Tuesday i drove 2 hrs on state 1 high way and finally get back to Kaikoura. made a phone call... something has changed... i didnt feel surprised this time. people is changing, thoughts are changing, attitude is changing. the only thing that makes the difference is whether you would like to face those change, or just pretend nothing happens.
a right decision can change your whole life. before making the decision, think carefully. dont giv urself change to regret.
finally, i m moving to christchurch this weekend for my career. everybody, pray for me!
feel sleepy now. forgot to drink warm milk tonight... need to go to bed. good night everyone. January 08 失去后的幸福昨天晚上和好朋友在msn聊完天以后。。。
睡觉的时候，躺在床上，听着雨滴声。。。突然觉得自己是幸福的
有些人因为错过，而选择去埋怨，去指责。。。
对，我是失去了。但我发现，在我失去的同时，我感受到了更深的友情和亲情。。。甚至是来自‘陌生人’的关心。
谢谢你们让我感受到了失去后的幸福
January 04 学会珍惜男孩和女孩是一对男女朋友，男孩很花心，但女孩对男孩很专情。6O1Q9h%[2k*c(B+m 许久之后女孩缓缓的说："因为我不想让你发现……我在哭泣！"那一天晚上，又下起了雨
January 01 1/1/2008look back... havnt really done anything in 2007. worked in a dairy shop, earned some money, spent some money. changed to another job. worked as a travel consultant for a while... learned something... met some people... but this is still not the life i want.
PR... for PR, some people can give up everything. but not me. i need a change... i need a new start... i need to fight for my future. you havnt tried yet, how can you know you cant do it. you still hav a chance...
thanks Dad, you are d one who gave me confidence and support.
thanks my dear friends, you are the ones who brought me hapiness when i felt really blue.
and you. even we cant be together, still want to say thank you for the good time you ve spent with me.
for everyone...
think about what is more important for you, and fight for it. never give up urself, never lose confidence on urself. get over it, just go for it. dont give urself chance to regret...
all the best... |
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