+ R0 w  Z" x5 H- y1 y0 她：“算了，我自己去吧” % @. k) L/ u0 }, \) l( G$ g3 S3 q

B:他们坐在一起看韩剧，她起身，他问“干吗去？” 9 ~6 C) @' |/ ~3 w
  她：“去接杯水”
0 T5 I( x( M& W& B  他：“你坐这看吧，我去给你接” / ^8 D5 a/ C, M3 M
女人多可怜，她对男人唯一的要求就是“疼她”，你可以什么都没有，只要你疼她，她就有足够的勇气把自己的下半辈子交给你。 2 ~8 ~* n' n3 F

/ M$ `+ E: [& d% fA:他晚上下班，给他打电话“宝贝儿，我晚上和朋友出去吃饭”
* p2 H' h- L' X+ m, C- Z# P  她：“你不是答应我陪我逛街的吗？” ' @7 D7 K8 Y) g9 l2 ]5 a
  他：“改天吧！” 1 D: ]* R. U4 C6 z6 t3 o
  她默默地流泪，为什么每次都是这样？ * I2 Q$ G& j9 c& H( X3 }  f
B：他下班的时候打电话给她：“亲爱的，别人给我一张奥运会的票，巴西队啊！一会儿我去看球了啊” ! a+ j4 A0 Z' e* s* [: L, t
   她：“哦，这样啊，好吧”
- K9 @( E! O3 I( t   他：“怎么不高兴了？” 0 _1 t) n/ ^" p' r# L7 ^( Z, m
   她：“你忘了，上周说好今天我朋友和她男朋友请我俩吃饭啊”
7 \6 G8 F: a6 [   他：“哎呀，对不起亲爱的，我忘记了，那我把票给别人吧，我陪你去吃饭”
! O7 c6 T( N% }5 `   她：“不要了，吃饭可以改天，或者你先去看，我们等你”
. ^0 p/ L1 }1 V! i- g1 a2 Z3 [   他：“那不行，答应你的事情必须得做到，再说你自己跟他俩在一起像电灯泡似的，你肯定不舒服啊”
- c7 c' Q! @( v% q" [0 S   她：“没事……”
$ H  U, g9 e$ @& \5 k1 i' n6 \+ ^   没等她说完，他很强势的告诉她“好了，听我的，你收拾一下，我一会儿去接你”
* h* w5 d2 O% \7 @( I. X其实女人不是不懂事，只是，她需要碰上一个懂事的男人，其实，情侣之间，是可以互相调教的。 0 K% J/ F$ k- ~
3 R1 I  A3 m3 `  C
A:他：“我晚上出去吃饭了啊” * K& ?1 y0 t  t% p) z
  她：“几点回家？”
& x/ ?$ h& Y; f  ~7 t9 g8 W) Q  他：“九点之前肯定回家” % `9 E3 {+ p  |% J( v! l( R
  九点半，她：“你怎么还不回来啊？”
$ s4 G- C, K$ [2 v* E+ A$ Q5 Z  他：“十点，肯定回家” 0 Q* n6 V& w: p1 V
  十一点，十二点，一点，两点…… 6 x# n/ C  c5 P6 o0 G: V
  后来，她不再打电话催他，因为她知道，对于不守承诺的男人，一切“肯定”都是“未必”。 2 u. O3 U- r5 G% _2 ]3 u! C
B:他：“我晚上出去吃饭，九点之前肯定结束，然后我俩去看电影” 6 W7 ~& R0 ^7 |' x3 @" |; s
  她：“你能那么快就结束吗？” * O; ^: o2 R$ u$ k1 g  u3 h
  他：“放心吧，我答应你了就一定能！” / w6 G) a' S" J: p0 i7 U  G: }
  快到九点的时候，他：“收拾一下吧，我马上就到你家了” ( ?% F1 k* Z& h/ e
信任，是在一件一件小事中建立起来的。 " v" |& q3 H+ t1 Y) f5 D

+ c0 |5 Q# ^/ r" \/ {0 O2 JA:她生理期，身体不舒服，顶着疼痛洗衣服，收拾屋子 3 y, y4 n  H; k& g2 T2 h6 U* i
  他坐在电脑前面玩网络游戏 5 t; O  H5 I" A) g' v! w. l
  她干完活，躺在床上，长出了一口气
6 e: ]' k5 W3 E7 n1 h  他看了她一眼：“宝贝儿，辛苦了！”然后转过头，继续玩他的游戏。 6 J: _; B6 Z1 o' c) i8 l9 a
B:她生理期，很难受，起身准备洗衣服 + H2 l* R8 G& V* d! c
  他拽住她：“你去床上躺着，我来！” $ e3 r8 D. ?* K8 |5 l3 \
  她：“你会做家务吗？你自己洗过衣服吗？”
: [+ i% M  e( @  他：“不会做可以学着做啊，以后你身体不舒服的时候，我当然得独挡一面！”
; C* w  ^) v! y, r6 L' L. ^" o女人需要的不只是甜言蜜语，哄她几句，她也许会给你一个微笑，但是实实在在的呵护，她会对你一辈子的感恩，并且会回报给你一个温暖的家。4 p, \, _! A2 f  X8 |7 n

% R* A4 A$ F! w* H; ^5 P1 o& nA:她给他拿了一包榛子，然后她去洗衣服9 j- T1 D7 X  X: ?6 }6 I' B
  回来的时候，榛子已经被他吃得所剩无几! G: @- O' S" G  p2 k6 e# g
B:她拿给他一包榛子，然后自己去收拾屋子
( N! B, F0 i: i  回来的时候，她看见电脑前面放了一堆剥好的榛子仁' m- l' \. R" x* w+ i9 j  X, u
女人很感性，她炫耀你对她的体贴，就好像炫耀克拉钻一样，这么廉价的买卖，用一点心思就能收获无比的财富。
, p- _# B4 }* A% ?: P( j+ t
0 s. U+ T) K7 XA:他说：“你是最好的”  h. X$ N  X& B2 [: p. C2 h
  她问：“我哪好？”
  K2 o( T7 x& x7 l) m8 x# f  他：“学历高，能力强，长得漂亮，对我又这么好”4 X3 h2 ~) B% P2 ^" T6 f8 _# s
  她笑了。
* l: A- s6 i. U% \" w/ DB:他：“你是我所遇到最好的女孩儿。”
- y; w" ^* F. D9 E4 K" H  她：“我哪好？”2 B3 \" q8 b1 i, V$ W
  他：“你对身边的每个人都很友善，很无私，对人对生活总是很感恩，一个人有一颗善良的心，会让周围的人感觉到温暖，你是我见过最善良的女孩儿，伤害你的人都应该下地狱！”1 _" ^8 Y8 I8 z: s% g5 M
  她哭了。5 K' Q) X! t/ p, g/ K  t  N, F
一个人，是因为你对他好，所以觉得你好% w4 C6 S8 n/ Z* u3 O; u0 v5 O
一个人，是因为懂得你的好，所以想要对你好
& t# {7 T  u& d4 A幸福的恋人，首先应该是一对彼此欣赏的知己

Police are investigating a Christchurch company that specialises in finding jobs for Asian students after complaints by 16 Chinese graduates who say they are owed a total of $175,000 in refunds.

Graduates spoken to by The Press say they paid the company, Team Migration, between $7500 and $18,000 to find them a job within four months.

Contracts were signed as far back as January last year.

Many allege they had not even had an interview and none had found relevant employment through the company. They claim company director Reshmi Pratap has refunded none of their money.

Detective Senior Sergeant Mike Johnson confirmed that police had interviewed several people and that the matter was being taken seriously. "Because various minority groups are not as conversant with our systems, they are more vulnerable."

The matter has also been referred to the Department of Labour. A spokesperson said the department was "unable to discuss this matter publicly any further at this stage as to do so may prejudice ongoing investigation".

Advertisements for Team Migration placed in Chinese-language newspapers and websites say: "With Team Migration you get 100% money back guarantee, contracts and receipts to protect you from losing your money."

All graduates The Press has spoken to say they were verbally assured they would get their money back if they did not get a job, an allegation Pratap has denied. Pratap told The Press her company worked hard to find graduates jobs within four months and had "enjoyed a strong client base and positive reputation".

She said contracts provided that Team Migration "can extend the period and continue working to place the student or provide a refund" and that advertisements the graduates had referred to were not current.

"The company has and is clearly acting in accordance with the contracts," Pratap said.

She said decisions to provide refunds were made on a case-by-case basis, and some complainants were in breach of contract.

Canterbury University commerce graduate Yan Sheng, 23, said most students paid the fees in cash and never received proper receipts.

She paid the company $8000 in January last year. Her contract says "Team Migration will use its best endeavours to place you into a job within four months".

"The jobs that we find are relevant to the qualifications gained by our graduates so they can qualify for permanent residency later on," it says.

"I don't want any other student to go to this agency any more," Sheng said. "My parents were so happy when I graduated, then everything suddenly changed and went really bad. I don't want any more Asian students to cry at home."

All the students spoken to said they had sought refunds. Some said they had been promised refunds but these were then consistently delayed while they were variously told they had to wait 21 working days for a cheque or that Pratap was overseas or in hospital. Many allege they were convinced to pay additional fees to secure job offers.

Others reported visiting Pratap's office asking for refunds, only to be sworn at and manhandled out of the door. Two graduates were forced to return to China when their visas ran out and they had no job.

The Press has copies of their contracts and signed statements telling similar stories of job assurances that never materialised and money not being refunded.

Christchurch Central Labour candidate Brendon Burns said he was contacted by the group a month ago and felt compelled to help.

"Your heart goes out to them. These are quite vulnerable people and we have a reputation as a nation which plays fair," he said.

Team Migration changed its name to Live and Work New Zealand Ltd in January this year.

The Team Migration website was taken down this year and Pratap no longer owns the home listed as her address on the Companies Register.

Jasper Xu, a former employee, said as far as he knew the company was still operating, but he had not spoken to Pratap for several months.

The other cellphone contact listed on the firm's advertisements, for Alan Xu, is no longer connected and police said one of the Chinese managers was known to have left the country.